The predominance of destructivity in borderline pathologies is due to disunion of sexual and aggressive drives. The destructivity is either directly projected on the object or emerges in the form of persecutory anxiety. The purpose of this article is to investigate the feeling of hate that is in the root of destructivity. Freud (1915) considers hate as the prototype of auto-conservatory direct. According to him, the hate finds its root in frustration to which ego is exposed. On the other hand, the post-freudian approaches have enlightened the determinant role of the object in the constitution of the feeling of hate. In this article, the approaches of Klein, Winnicott and Bion will be presented as well as the view of Paul Denis who suggests that hate could be served to protect the bond with the object instead of destroying it.